Parallel lives, 2-min focus reset, and a get-unstiff exercise
Hi there, I’m Aarti, Founder and Lead Therapist at Incontact. With this newsletter, we aim to bring you a little inspiration that sparks balance, joy, and self-reflection in your daily life.
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Today’s story comes from the book, “The Midnight Library” by Matt Haig. It’s a tale about Nora Seed, who finds herself in a mysterious library that offers her a chance to explore different versions of her life. It’s an exploration of choices, regrets, and what truly makes life worth living. I found this story compelling and I think you’ll love it too. 💜
1 Story
Exploring the lives you didn’t live
Nora Seed felt trapped in a life of regret. One evening, overwhelmed by her circumstances, she found herself transported to a place called the Midnight Library, a space between life and death. Each book on its shelves was a version of her life—every decision she didn’t make, every opportunity she didn’t take.
With the help of a wise librarian, Nora began to explore what might have been. She slipped into a life where she pursued her dreams of becoming a glaciologist in the Arctic, another where she became a famous rock star, and yet another where she stayed close to her family and never left her small town.
Between life and death there is a library, and within that library, the shelves go on forever. Every book provides a chance to try another life you could have lived. To see how things would be different if you had made other choices. Would you have done anything different, if you had the chance to undo your regrets?
— The Midnight Library
Through these experiences, Nora realized that each life had its own set of challenges, disappointments, and joys. The perfect life didn’t exist. But what did exist was the opportunity to find contentment in the life she was already living.
This journey wasn’t just about fixing regrets. It was about embracing the present, realizing that every choice had value, and every life, even with its flaws, held meaning.
1 Takeaway
Living without regrets means accepting today
While it’s natural to wonder “What if?”, the key to fulfillment isn’t in chasing alternate versions of our lives. Instead, it lies in embracing the choices we’ve made and finding peace in the present moment. Every path has its ups and downs, and no life is without its challenges.
Instead of wishing for a different outcome, focus on what makes your current life valuable. The present is where growth happens. It’s where you learn, evolve, and ultimately, find peace.
Tip #1
2-min focus reset
When you’re having trouble focusing on work or studies, here’s a mindfulness exercise to get back your focus. ⬇️
Tip #2
An exercise to become un-stiff, a must for desk-workers
The thoracic extension is an exercise that opens your chest and stretches your back. It counteracts slouched-over posture, prevents neck and back pain, and improves mobility.
Super beneficial for those who sit for hours during the day.
“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”
— C.S. Lewis
